Saturday, March 24, 2007
It was Lorraine's birthday today. We had a nice time. Late start. Steak and eggs breakfast at Frankie and Bennys. Lots of shopping (Lorraine had a voutcher and bought "Casino Royale" for the ridiculous price of under 9 quid at Sainsbury's). Home. Ate nibbles and junk food and watched "Casino Royale" (even better the second time). Vegetated through the rest of Saturday night TV.
Nice time.
All ruined now. We had an argument and Lorraine said something to me that was so inappropriate, so offensive, so hurtful and out of order that I called her a "frigid, harridan of a fucking bitch" and walked out of the living room. She hasn't come after me. I have retreated here; to the upstairs back room. I will probably go to bed in a minute, get up and leave the house early and spend the whole day in the cinema. I don't want to stay in this house.
I don't think that Lorraine has any feelings for me whatsoever other than annoyance. It's kind of pathetic that I ever thought this could be salvaged.
Nice time.
All ruined now. We had an argument and Lorraine said something to me that was so inappropriate, so offensive, so hurtful and out of order that I called her a "frigid, harridan of a fucking bitch" and walked out of the living room. She hasn't come after me. I have retreated here; to the upstairs back room. I will probably go to bed in a minute, get up and leave the house early and spend the whole day in the cinema. I don't want to stay in this house.
I don't think that Lorraine has any feelings for me whatsoever other than annoyance. It's kind of pathetic that I ever thought this could be salvaged.
Labels: Arguments, Lorraine, Movies
# posted by Pynchon @ 10:11 pm 
Comments:
<< Home
No, it isn't pathetic at all and it possibly can be salvaged.
Do you think Lorraine really wants to end it and leave you or do you think other issues are getting in the way of you having a good relationship? I suspect the latter and if that's the case then the best thing to do is to try and address what these issues are and deal with them. Once that's on track the relationship should fall into place.
It seems, from what I read here, that your anger/frustration are related to the state of the relationship whereas Lorraine's are centred elsewhere; sure she kicks back at you when you show your anger/frustration but that's understandable.
You've both got a lot of work to do if you're going to get through this but I think it is doable.
Be strong my man.
Post a Comment
Do you think Lorraine really wants to end it and leave you or do you think other issues are getting in the way of you having a good relationship? I suspect the latter and if that's the case then the best thing to do is to try and address what these issues are and deal with them. Once that's on track the relationship should fall into place.
It seems, from what I read here, that your anger/frustration are related to the state of the relationship whereas Lorraine's are centred elsewhere; sure she kicks back at you when you show your anger/frustration but that's understandable.
You've both got a lot of work to do if you're going to get through this but I think it is doable.
Be strong my man.
<< Home
